For those of you worrying about my kitty, I can report that she is in good physical health and her issues do seem to be about lack of attention and jealousy/ territoriality with our other cat.
Extra attention and love are working. Now if I could just get Spouse to be consistent and stop shouting at our cats, it would be good.
Thank you all for your kind concern ❤️
@anathema_device glad to hear it!